I ended up cheating, and making the soup from a tom yum base, and then adding lemon juice and fish sauce to get the flavours balanced. it had the chilli at the right level, but really needed the zing of the lemon to make it nice. everyone loved it (thank god - i always have a nightmare about cooking for people and they hate it. i think it's almost as scary as the dream where you walk around naked)
the sauces i had for everyone to play with were a ground chilli sauce, bull's head barbecue sauce (i cannot begin to describe how "barbecue sauce" is false advertising, but it was nice), sesame paste (tasted like peanut butter), sesame oil, and garlic. and so it began!
I think that between the 4 of us, we only ate half the ingredients, so i'll throw it together for a stir fry later today, with garlic, chilli, and some good oyster sauce.
Victims of the subsequent drinking were:
- Korean raspberry wine
- Limoncello
- Japanese plum wine
- Bress winery apple cider http://www.bress.com.au
- Glenlivet 15 year old single malt
- frozen margarita bucket
- chang beers, and i think some other things (can't find the bodies)
Over all, a good time i think ;)